It seems not only I, but also many others are caught in a wave of weddings. While it brings me immense joy to see friends and acquaintances tying the knot, it certainly can strain your budget with the costs of shower gifts, wedding presents, and outfits. However, you don’t need to avoid these celebratory events or be a miserly attendee. Here are some tips to manage your budget throughout the wedding season, without compromising the guest experience.
1. CUTTING DOWN WEDDING GIFT EXPENSES
When I was to be wed, I made it clear to my friends that although they were welcome to all the events – the bridal shower, bachelorette party, and the wedding, they were under no obligation to shower me with gifts for each event. This principle likely holds true for most to-be weds. There’s no rule saying you have to give multiple gifts just because you’ve been invited to more than one event.
You can get creative with your presents, like giving cozy throws or beautiful picture frames that might not be on the gift registry but would still be appreciated by the couple. These can be found at places like Kohl’s or JCPenny’s using discount coupons. You can also find attractive home decor items at craft stores such as Michael’s, Joannes, or Hobby Lobby – often available at 40-50% off with coupons.
Another great idea is to put together a gift basket for the couple. For example, a basket full of bath and body essentials like razors, toothbrushes, shampoo would not only be practical and useful, but also cost-effective if you use coupons. There are several other gift basket ideas out there, like one that includes everyday kitchen items.
Also, gifting American Express® Gift Cards can be a perfect and simple solution for any occasion.
2. REDUCING WEDDING ATTIRE COSTS
Being a wedding guest doesn’t necessitate purchasing a brand-new ensemble. You can create a fresh look with the pieces already in your wardrobe. For instance, women can stylishly pair a black dress with colorful heels, a shawl, and a necklace. Men can also look sharp by teaming a well-ironed dress shirt and blazer or suit jacket with dark jeans. The key is to reimagine items you already own.
If you’ve been asked to be part of the wedding party, it’s generally expected that you shoulder the costs of your outfit, makeup, and hair. However, look out for deals, like the bridesmaids getting a $20 discount on gowns at David’s Bridal if the bride makes her purchase there, or the ‘buy five get one free’ offer from Men’s Warehouse for suits/tuxedos. Most importantly, budget for the dress instead of pleading financial constraints. If you aren’t that close to the bride or groom, it’s absolutely okay to politely decline their invitation to join the wedding party.
3. SPENDING LESS ON CHILD CARE
If possible, it’s often easier to leave your children at home. Some couples go the extra mile to cater to kids, but many would prefer your little ones to stay put, without causing any offense. Arrange for a relative or a friend to babysit in a trade-off arrangement, such as treating them to a meal or offering to babysit their kids in the future. This could save you money and stress, allowing you to enjoy the festivities with ease.
The bottom line: attending weddings can be a joyous yet costly affair if not planned appropriately. Upon receiving the ‘save the date’ card, it’s a good idea to start setting aside $20-$30 monthly to cover all the additional wedding-related costs. Enjoy the season without it eating into your savings!
